Natural Feeding

"The newborn baby has only three demands. They are warmth in the arms of its mother, food from her breasts, and security in the knowledge of her presence. Breastfeeding satisfies all three." ...Dr. Grantly Dick-read

Kimberly's Keys to Breastfeeding Success:

Find Your Tribe: I put this one first because it is the most important. If things get rough support can make the difference between overcoming difficulties and giving up on breastfeeding. Even if breastfeeding is going well a lack of support can lead to early weaning. Surround yourself with people who are supportive of your decision to breastfeed. Most people who are not supportive of breastfeeing fall into one of two categories. Either they don't really know much about breastfeeding (or have misconceptions), or they have had a negative breastfeeding experience. The former you can try to educate if their support is important to you. The latter you may need to agree to disagree with them about breastfeeding or even limit your contact with them.

La Leche League: LLL meetings are a wonderful place to meet other nursing mothers and get breastfeeding support, especially if it is lacking in your circle of family & friends. I strongly suggest going to at least a couple meetings before your baby is born. Anyone interested in breastfeeding is welcome and mothers can bring their nurslings with them. You will get to see confident nursing mothers in action and get all your questions answered by an experienced nursing mom. To find a group near you call 1-800-LA LECHE or check out the Index of La Leche League Web Pages.

Learn the Basics: Read books about breastfeeding, chat with friends & family members who have breastfeeding experience, take a class, attend an LLL meeting or two, watch a video, scour the internet...you get the idea. Knowledge is power so go empower yourself to breastfeed your baby! One small caveat - just because it is written down somewhere or is shared with you by a respected acquaintance does not mean it is good information. Start with the links listed on this page and I promise you won't be mislead.

Just Say "No" to Drugs: The best way to get breastfeeding off to a good start is to have a natural, un-medicated birth. Medications can make a baby sleepy and less interested in nursing which may cause problems for some nursing couples. That does not mean that you can't breastfeed if you birth is anything less than natural, just make sure you give it a little extra time and patience. Having a Lactation Consultant or an experienced nursing mother visit you soon after the birth is a great idea, especially for mom's new to nursing.

Early & Often: Nursing your baby immediately after birth, or as soon as you possibly can has benefits for both of you. A new baby is most interested in nursing during the first hour after birth. He latches on and starts sucking and his belly is filled with warm milk as he is cuddled in your loving arms. He is the perfect distance from your face to see you clearly, he feels safe and loved after a such a big change in his little life. Your baby's sucking stimulates the release of a natural hormone that causes the uterus to contract and shrink reducing the flow of blood. This is also what helps you get back into shape faster than you would if you were not breastfeeding. In the first few days of life your baby receives colostrum, a priceless source of protective immunities against disease. Around the third to fifth day post-partum your milk comes in and both of you should be getting the hang of things. If you are still having trouble, don't give up! Contact La Leche League or find a good Lactation Consultant and relax, some baby's and mom's catch on right away and some just need a little help.

Only My Mama: This is an extension of Early & Often. Breastmilk is produced on a supply & demand basis. What that means is that the more stimulation (i.e. sucking) your nipples receive the more milk you will make. This is why it's so very important to avoid all artificial nipples during the first six weeks of breastfeeding. Giving even one bottle or pacifier before breastfeeding is well established is enough to cause nipple confusion in some babies and wreak havoc with breastfeeding. If for some reason a supplemental feeding is necessary their are ways to do it without resorting to a bottle (finger feedings, supplemental nursing systems, a plastic eye dropper, a flexible feeding cup, etc.).

Watch Your Baby Not the Clock: To ensure an ample milk supply babies should be nursed whenever they show signs of hunger. The most common signals an infant uses are lip smacking, rooting (turning towards their hands or your breast with an open mouth), and sucking on their fingers or fists. If you wait until your baby is crying with hunger you risk making him too upset to nurse effectively. While scheduled feedings may work with babies fed artificial breast milk it has no place in breastfeeding.

Relax and Enjoy Your Baby: Having a baby is exhausting physically and emotionally. Give yourself a couple weeks at home to recover from the work of birth and get comfortable with breastfeeding. Getting enough rest is important so learn to rest when your baby does. You can't expect to nurse a baby every two to three hours around the clock on your old sleep schedule without a negative impact on your physical, emotional and/or mental health. Take a nap with your baby in the afternoons if at all possible, even if you can't drift off close your eyes and rest. Make yourself a cozy nursing station near your favorite comfy seat and stock it with good books, a cordless phone, the t.v. or stereo remote controls, burp cloths, extra diapers & wipes, a nursing stool and a large glass or pitcher of water. Babies are only babies for a very short time, this intensely needy stage will soon pass, enjoy it while you can.

Breastfeeding Support Organizations:

Breastfeeding Advocacy Organizations:

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